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<rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" version="2.0"><channel><atom:link rel="hub" href="http://tumblr.superfeedr.com/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom"/><description>“She was today. She was tomorrow. She was the faintest scent of a cactus flower, the flitting shadow of an elf owl. We did not know what to make of her. In our minds we tried to pin her to corkboard like a butterfly, but the pin merely went through and away she flew.”</description><title>She was Elusive</title><generator>Tumblr (3.0; @thatgirliusedtoknow)</generator><link>http://thatgirliusedtoknow.tumblr.com/</link><item><title>"A boy shall become a man when he fixes his gaze on the King and bows to his holy name, and when he..."</title><description>“A boy shall become a man when he fixes his gaze on the King and bows to his holy name, and when he learns to cherish her, not by what her body can give him, but by what her spirit and heart can do, which is point him right back to his King.”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;&lt;p&gt;Wow.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;(via &lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://rebekahlynnlove.tumblr.com/"&gt;rebekahlynnlove&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://thatgirliusedtoknow.tumblr.com/post/36986048145</link><guid>http://thatgirliusedtoknow.tumblr.com/post/36986048145</guid><pubDate>Sat, 01 Dec 2012 18:22:38 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>be-fearful-of-mediocrity:

choc-o-late:

I need a ladybug right...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_mace2nR2va1qz4d4bo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://be-fearful-of-mediocrity.tumblr.com/post/33386596868/choc-o-late-i-need-a-ladybug-right-about-now"&gt;be-fearful-of-mediocrity&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://choc-o-late.tumblr.com/post/33366595323/i-need-a-ladybug-right-about-now"&gt;choc-o-late&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;I need a ladybug right about now.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;This makes me think of MacKenzi. Not sure why, it just does :)&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;Probably because I looooooooooove ladybugs!! Awe! Kiss!&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://thatgirliusedtoknow.tumblr.com/post/33386657177</link><guid>http://thatgirliusedtoknow.tumblr.com/post/33386657177</guid><pubDate>Thu, 11 Oct 2012 17:54:20 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>"We think that you’ll find that every woman in her heart of hearts longs for three things: to..."</title><description>“We think that you’ll find that every woman in her heart of hearts longs for three things: to be romanced, to play an irreplaceable role in a great adventure, and to unveil beauty. That’s what makes a woman come alive.”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;Captivating: Unveiling the Mystery of a Woman’s Soul&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://thatgirliusedtoknow.tumblr.com/post/31121077408</link><guid>http://thatgirliusedtoknow.tumblr.com/post/31121077408</guid><pubDate>Sat, 08 Sep 2012 09:41:31 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>thedailyfeed:

Meet the victims of the Colorado theater shooting...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m7kdjxsTXH1qf5y35o1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://blog.thedaily.com/post/27761412981/meet-the-victims-of-the-colorado-theater-shooting" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;thedailyfeed&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;Meet &lt;a href="http://www.thedaily.com/page/2012/07/22/072212-news-colorado-victims-zzswipedownzz/" title="Colorado victims"&gt;the victims of the Colorado theater shooting&lt;/a&gt; — including a 6-year-old and a man who died protecting his girlfriend.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://thatgirliusedtoknow.tumblr.com/post/27765273093</link><guid>http://thatgirliusedtoknow.tumblr.com/post/27765273093</guid><pubDate>Sun, 22 Jul 2012 11:25:47 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>"Just when you think you can’t handle any more, something else comes along and you handle it."</title><description>“Just when you think you can’t handle any more, something else comes along and you handle it.”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;Maddie, fromColour Me There&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://thatgirliusedtoknow.tumblr.com/post/27712250247</link><guid>http://thatgirliusedtoknow.tumblr.com/post/27712250247</guid><pubDate>Sat, 21 Jul 2012 15:40:47 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>Today I flew home on an hour and a half flight, all the while talking to a man that was sitting next...</title><description>&lt;p&gt;Today I flew home on an hour and a half flight, all the while talking to a man that was sitting next to me. We talked about everything from his family, to our religions and the Bible, to his job, and to what I want to study at college.. After the flight, he came up to me in baggage claim and said &amp;#8220;Fancy meeting you here!&amp;#8221; and then we laughed about how we had talked for that whole time and learned so much about each other and neither of us knew the others name. Then he said that he guessed it didn&amp;#8217;t really matter because our souls would recognize each other anyway. It really struck me that through talking about God and our different and similar beliefs that he believed that we would meet again in Heaven one day. I am amazed and thrilled that I made that good of an impression. We believe totally differently on things that would be really important to some people about whether or not you get into Heaven, but, as he told me he believed, the little stuff doesn&amp;#8217;t matter as much as the big picture. You need to love everyone like you love yourself, or even better, love everyone like they are the most important person in your life. You need to have faith in God&amp;#8217;s love, and you need to want to do what God asks you personally to do, and that&amp;#8217;s all that really matters. God is amazing and he works in amazing ways. I&amp;#8217;m so thankful that I got to have this growing and enlightening experience today.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://thatgirliusedtoknow.tumblr.com/post/27594381840</link><guid>http://thatgirliusedtoknow.tumblr.com/post/27594381840</guid><pubDate>Thu, 19 Jul 2012 21:22:00 -0400</pubDate><category>heaven</category><category>religion</category><category>flights</category><category>strangers</category></item><item><title>"I want a love that makes God get up and dance around His throne every time He sets His eyes on us."</title><description>“I want a love that makes God get up and dance around His throne every time He sets His eyes on us.”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;Brent Rice&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://thatgirliusedtoknow.tumblr.com/post/25240506611</link><guid>http://thatgirliusedtoknow.tumblr.com/post/25240506611</guid><pubDate>Sat, 16 Jun 2012 15:09:18 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>spiritualinspiration:

A CRUCIFIXION TYPE LOVE



Wow!</title><description>&lt;iframe width="400" height="225" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/7E9doP6EtHk?wmode=transparent&amp;autohide=1&amp;egm=0&amp;hd=1&amp;iv_load_policy=3&amp;modestbranding=1&amp;rel=0&amp;showinfo=0&amp;showsearch=0" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://spiritualinspiration.tumblr.com/post/25223262830/a-crucifixion-type-love" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;spiritualinspiration&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;i&gt;A CRUCIFIXION TYPE LOVE&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;



Wow!</description><link>http://thatgirliusedtoknow.tumblr.com/post/25240379177</link><guid>http://thatgirliusedtoknow.tumblr.com/post/25240379177</guid><pubDate>Sat, 16 Jun 2012 15:07:02 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>storyboard:


Pusheen the Cat Tells All
Like most members of the...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m5mdry2lA01rrpm57o1_r1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://storyboard.tumblr.com/post/25155724981/pusheen-the-cat-tells-all-like-most-members-of" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;storyboard&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;h2 class="title"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Pusheen the Cat Tells All&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span class="lead"&gt;Like most members of the feline family, &lt;a href="http://pusheen.com/"&gt;Pusheen the Cat&lt;/a&gt; enjoys sitting on warm computers, long petting sessions, and many other quintessential feline activities. But she’s not your typical tabby.&lt;/span&gt; Adopted from a shelter in her youth (hence the name, based upon the Irish word for kitten, &lt;a href="http://talkirish.com/blogs/wordaday/archive/2012/04/24/irish-word-a-day-puis-237-n-kitten.aspx"&gt;&lt;em&gt;puisín&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/a&gt;), Pusheen has since grown into one of Tumblr’s furry sensations.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="photo"&gt;&lt;img src="http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m5nsw4JgdS1qz82wc.gif"/&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Her human-like &lt;a href="http://pusheen.com/post/5955423243"&gt;snacking abilities&lt;/a&gt;, love of &lt;a href="http://pusheen.com/post/12063308054"&gt;dress-up&lt;/a&gt;, and abnormally adorable on-screen bop have garnered hundreds of thousands of fans. She already has a line of &lt;a href="http://www.heychickadee.com/collections/pusheenthecat"&gt;merchandise&lt;/a&gt;and just signed a book deal. And yet, despite all this fame, Pusheen remains her modest, friendly, yarn-loving self. How does she stay so grounded, amidst all the adulation? Pusheen answers, in typical fashion.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://storyboard.tumblr.com/post/25155724981/pusheen-the-cat-tells-all-like-most-members-of"&gt;Read More&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://thatgirliusedtoknow.tumblr.com/post/25167892232</link><guid>http://thatgirliusedtoknow.tumblr.com/post/25167892232</guid><pubDate>Fri, 15 Jun 2012 13:38:01 -0400</pubDate><category>pusheen</category><category>I just needed everyone to see this</category></item><item><title>I tried to dye my hair purple</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&amp;#8230;but it came out green!&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://thatgirliusedtoknow.tumblr.com/post/20222652745</link><guid>http://thatgirliusedtoknow.tumblr.com/post/20222652745</guid><pubDate>Sat, 31 Mar 2012 09:26:05 -0400</pubDate><category>koolaid</category><category>hair dye</category><category>green</category></item><item><title>Amazing.</title><description>&lt;iframe src="http://player.vimeo.com/video/10868953" width="400" height="225" frameborder="0"&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;Amazing.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://thatgirliusedtoknow.tumblr.com/post/20196421083</link><guid>http://thatgirliusedtoknow.tumblr.com/post/20196421083</guid><pubDate>Fri, 30 Mar 2012 20:17:43 -0400</pubDate><category>how he loves</category><category>john mark mcmillan</category></item><item><title>The guy across me sitting in the airport is people watching and...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m1d171gkhm1qcvvuio1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;The guy across me sitting in the airport is people watching and I think he’s trying to act like he’s not. These are his legs. :P&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://thatgirliusedtoknow.tumblr.com/post/19802546120</link><guid>http://thatgirliusedtoknow.tumblr.com/post/19802546120</guid><pubDate>Fri, 23 Mar 2012 18:59:25 -0400</pubDate><category>airport</category><category>people watching</category></item><item><title>The Cure - Friday I’m In LoveKeagan got this stuck in my head....</title><description>&lt;iframe class="tumblr_audio_player tumblr_audio_player_19786329519" src="http://thatgirliusedtoknow.tumblr.com/post/19786329519/audio_player_iframe/thatgirliusedtoknow/tumblr_m1088jsTla1rpntve?audio_file=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.tumblr.com%2Faudio_file%2Fthatgirliusedtoknow%2F19786329519%2Ftumblr_m1088jsTla1rpntve" frameborder="0" allowtransparency="true" scrolling="no" width="500" height="85"&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;The Cure - &lt;em&gt;Friday I’m In&lt;/em&gt; Love&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Keagan got this stuck in my head. I’m in love with friday!&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://thatgirliusedtoknow.tumblr.com/post/19786329519</link><guid>http://thatgirliusedtoknow.tumblr.com/post/19786329519</guid><pubDate>Fri, 23 Mar 2012 12:45:13 -0400</pubDate><category>friday</category><category>the cure</category></item><item><title>hellogiggles:

ITEM OF THE DAY: ITEM OF THE DAY
by Molly...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m11n0xTGgd1qf6rvbo1_r1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://hellogiggles.tumblr.com/post/19465897250/item-of-the-day-item-of-the-day-by-molly-mcaleer"&gt;hellogiggles&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://hellogiggles.com/item-of-the-day-276" rel="bookmark" title="Go to original post at HelloGiggles"&gt;ITEM OF THE DAY: ITEM OF THE DAY&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://hellogiggles.com/item-of-the-day-276" rel="bookmark" title="Go to original post at HelloGiggles"&gt;by Molly McAleer&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;Yes!! Just what I’ve been waiting for. :)&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://thatgirliusedtoknow.tumblr.com/post/19466866905</link><guid>http://thatgirliusedtoknow.tumblr.com/post/19466866905</guid><pubDate>Sat, 17 Mar 2012 15:38:15 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>So many thoughts fluttering through the insides of this lump on my neck.</title><link>http://thatgirliusedtoknow.tumblr.com/post/19434222612</link><guid>http://thatgirliusedtoknow.tumblr.com/post/19434222612</guid><pubDate>Fri, 16 Mar 2012 23:41:17 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>I wish I could wear this everyday.</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m0hx2eWQIb1qcvvuio1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;I wish I could wear this everyday.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://thatgirliusedtoknow.tumblr.com/post/18885445328</link><guid>http://thatgirliusedtoknow.tumblr.com/post/18885445328</guid><pubDate>Tue, 06 Mar 2012 22:44:38 -0500</pubDate><category>decade day</category><category>outfit</category></item><item><title>"Being tender and open is beautiful. As a woman, I feel continually shhh’ed. Too sensitive. Too..."</title><description>““Being tender and open is beautiful. As a woman, I feel continually shhh’ed. Too sensitive. Too mushy. Too wishy washy. Blah blah. Don’t let someone steal your tenderness. Don’t allow the coldness and fear of others to tarnish your perfectly vulnerable beating heart. Nothing is more powerful than allowing yourself to truly be affected by things. Whether it’s a song, a stranger, a mountain, a rain drop, a tea kettle, an article, a sentence, a footstep…feel it all – look around you. All of this is for you. Take it and have gratitude. Give it and feel love.””&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;&lt;span id="_mce_start"&gt;﻿&lt;/span&gt;Hellogiggles, Zooey Deschanel&lt;span id="_mce_start"&gt;﻿&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://thatgirliusedtoknow.tumblr.com/post/18573001203</link><guid>http://thatgirliusedtoknow.tumblr.com/post/18573001203</guid><pubDate>Thu, 01 Mar 2012 18:12:38 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>chriskingwong:

thirty things to stop doing to yourself: as...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lw4wmcBqyc1qfizieo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://chriskingwong.tumblr.com/post/18160140698/thirty-things-to-stop-doing-to-yourself-as-maria"&gt;chriskingwong&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;thirty things to stop doing to yourself: &lt;/strong&gt;as maria robinson once said, “nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending.” nothing could be closer to the truth. but before you can begin this process of transformation you have to stop doing the things that have been holding you back. here are some ideas to get you started:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;ol start="1"&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;stop spending time with the wrong people.&lt;/strong&gt; – life is too short to spend time with people who suck the happiness out of you. if someone wants you in their life, they’ll make room for you. you shouldn’t have to fight for a spot. never, ever insist yourself to someone who continuously overlooks your worth. and remember, it’s not the people that stand by your side when you’re at your best, but the ones who stand beside you when you’re at your worst that are your true friends.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;stop running from your problems.&lt;/strong&gt; – face them head on. no, it won’t be easy. there is no person in the world capable of flawlessly handling every punch thrown at them. we aren’t supposed to be able to instantly solve problems. that’s not how we’re made. in fact, we’re made to get upset, sad, hurt, stumble and fall. because that’s the whole purpose of living – to face problems, learn, adapt, and solve them over the course of time. this is what ultimately molds us into the person we become.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;stop lying to yourself.&lt;/strong&gt; – you can lie to anyone else in the world, but you can’t lie to yourself. our lives improve only when we take chances, and the first and most difficult chance we can take is to be honest with ourselves.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;stop putting your own needs on the back burner.&lt;/strong&gt; – the most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much, and forgetting that you are special too. yes, help others; but help yourself too. if there was ever a moment to follow your passion and do something that matters to you, that moment is now.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;stop trying to be someone you’re not.&lt;/strong&gt; – one of the greatest challenges in life is being yourself in a world that’s trying to make you like everyone else. someone will always be prettier, someone will always be smarter, someone will always be younger, but they will never be you. don’t change so people will like you. be yourself and the right people will love the real you.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;stop trying to hold onto the past.&lt;/strong&gt; – you can’t start the next chapter of your life if you keep re-reading your last one.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;stop being scared to make a mistake.&lt;/strong&gt; – doing something and getting it wrong is at least ten times more productive than doing nothing. every success has a trail of failures behind it, and every failure is leading towards success. you end up regretting the things you did NOT do far more than the things you did.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;stop berating yourself for old mistakes.&lt;/strong&gt; – we may love the wrong person and cry about the wrong things, but no matter how things go wrong, one thing is for sure, mistakes help us find the person and things that are right for us. we all make mistakes, have struggles, and even regret things in our past. but you are not your mistakes, you are not your struggles, and you are here NOW with the power to shape your day and your future. every single thing that has ever happened in your life is preparing you for a moment that is yet to come.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;stop trying to buy happiness.&lt;/strong&gt; – many of the things we desire are expensive. but the truth is, the things that really satisfy us are totally free – love, laughter and working on our passions.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;stop exclusively looking to others for happiness.&lt;/strong&gt; – if you’re not happy with who you are on the inside, you won’t be happy in a long-term relationship with anyone else either. you have to create stability in your own life first before you can share it with someone else.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;stop being idle.&lt;/strong&gt; – don’t think too much or you’ll create a problem that wasn’t even there in the first place. evaluate situations and take decisive action. you cannot change what you refuse to confront. making progress involves risk. period! you can’t make it to second base with your foot on first.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;stop thinking you’re not ready.&lt;/strong&gt; – nobody ever feels 100% ready when an opportunity arises. because most great opportunities in life force us to grow beyond our comfort zones, which means we won’t feel totally comfortable at first.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;stop getting involved in relationships for the wrong reasons.&lt;/strong&gt; – relationships must be chosen wisely. it’s better to be alone than to be in bad company. there’s no need to rush. if something is meant to be, it will happen – in the right time, with the right person, and for the best reason. fall in love when you’re ready, not when you’re lonely.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;stop rejecting new relationships just because old ones didn’t work.&lt;/strong&gt; – in life you’ll realize that there is a purpose for everyone you meet. some will test you, some will use you and some will teach you. but most importantly, some will bring out the best in you.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;stop trying to compete against everyone else.&lt;/strong&gt; – don’t worry about what others doing better than you. concentrate on beating your own records every day. success is a battle between YOU and YOURSELF only.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;stop being jealous of others.&lt;/strong&gt; – jealousy is the art of counting someone else’s blessings instead of your own. ask yourself this: “what’s something i have that everyone wants?”&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;stop complaining and feeling sorry for yourself.&lt;/strong&gt; – life’s curveballs are thrown for a reason – to shift your path in a direction that is meant for you. you may not see or understand everything the moment it happens, and it may be tough. but reflect back on those negative curveballs thrown at you in the past. you’ll often see that eventually they led you to a better place, person, state of mind, or situation. so smile! let everyone know that today you are a lot stronger than you were yesterday, and you will be.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;stop holding grudges.&lt;/strong&gt; – don’t live your life with hate in your heart. you will end up hurting yourself more than the people you hate. forgiveness is not saying, “what you did to me is okay.” it is saying, “i’m not going to let what you did to me ruin my happiness forever.” forgiveness is the answer… let go, find peace, liberate yourself! and remember, forgiveness is not just for other people, it’s for you too. if you must, forgive yourself, move on and try to do better next time.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;stop letting others bring you down to their level.&lt;/strong&gt; – refuse to lower your standards to accommodate those who refuse to raise theirs.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;stop wasting time explaining yourself to others.&lt;/strong&gt; – your friends don’t need it and your enemies won’t believe it anyway. just do what you know in your heart is right.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;stop doing the same things over and over without taking a break.&lt;/strong&gt; – the time to take a deep breath is when you don’t have time for it. if you keep doing what you’re doing, you’ll keep getting what you’re getting. sometimes you need to distance yourself to see things clearly.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;stop overlooking the beauty of small moments.&lt;/strong&gt; – enjoy the little things, because one day you may look back and discover they were the big things. the best portion of your life will be the small, nameless moments you spend smiling with someone who matters to you.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;stop trying to make things perfect.&lt;/strong&gt; – the real world doesn’t reward perfectionists, it rewards people who get things done.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;stop following the path of least resistance.&lt;/strong&gt; – life is not easy, especially when you plan on achieving something worthwhile. don’t take the easy way out. do something extraordinary.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;stop acting like everything is fine if it isn’t.&lt;/strong&gt; – it’s okay to fall apart for a little while. you don’t always have to pretend to be strong, and there is no need to constantly prove that everything is going well. you shouldn’t be concerned with what other people are thinking either – cry if you need to – it’s healthy to shed your tears. the sooner you do, the sooner you will be able to smile again.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;stop blaming others for your troubles.&lt;/strong&gt; – the extent to which you can achieve your dreams depends on the extent to which you take responsibility for your life. when you blame others for what you’re going through, you deny responsibility – you give others power over that part of your life.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;stop trying to be everything to everyone.&lt;/strong&gt; – doing so is impossible, and trying will only burn you out. but making one person smile CAN change the world. maybe not the whole world, but their world. so narrow your focus.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;stop worrying so much.&lt;/strong&gt; – worry will not strip tomorrow of its burdens, it will strip today of its joy. one way to check if something is worth mulling over is to ask yourself this question: “will this matter in one year’s time? three years? five years?” if not, then it’s not worth worrying about.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;stop focusing on what you don’t want to happen.&lt;/strong&gt; – focus on what you do want to happen. positive thinking is at the forefront of every great success story. if you awake every morning with the thought that something wonderful will happen in your life today, and you pay close attention, you’ll often find that you’re right.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;stop being ungrateful.&lt;/strong&gt; – no matter how good or bad you have it, wake up each day thankful for your life. someone somewhere else is desperately fighting for theirs. instead of thinking about what you’re missing, try thinking about what you have that everyone else is missing.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ol&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://thatgirliusedtoknow.tumblr.com/post/18414816218</link><guid>http://thatgirliusedtoknow.tumblr.com/post/18414816218</guid><pubDate>Mon, 27 Feb 2012 21:22:00 -0500</pubDate><category>needed to see this</category><category>simple advice</category></item><item><title>Trying to figure out if I like the cover by Walk off the Earth...</title><description>&lt;iframe width="400" height="225" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/8UVNT4wvIGY?wmode=transparent&amp;autohide=1&amp;egm=0&amp;hd=1&amp;iv_load_policy=3&amp;modestbranding=1&amp;rel=0&amp;showinfo=0&amp;showsearch=0" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;Trying to figure out if I like the cover by Walk off the Earth or the original best, although I do love this video. I fall in love with both versions everytime I hear them.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://thatgirliusedtoknow.tumblr.com/post/18390022869</link><guid>http://thatgirliusedtoknow.tumblr.com/post/18390022869</guid><pubDate>Mon, 27 Feb 2012 14:48:45 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>These are teensey little vases on a necklace! Too cute!! (and...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lzguye0vOa1qcvvuio1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;These are teensey little vases on a necklace! Too cute!! (and also too expensive :P) People are so full of fabulous and creative ideas these days. :)&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;(Click the picture for the link to their etsy page! There is tons of fun stuff.)&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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